Discover True Love After 40

Build a foundation for an amazing relationship. Rekindle an older relationship. Make sure you're healthy enough to start dating again, and create the relationship you truly desire and want for yourself.

Zen & Cody

Transform Your Love Life After 40

Rediscover Love After Life Changes

Navigate the journey of finding love again after major life transitions

Build Meaningful Connections at Any Age

Learn to create deep, lasting relationships that fulfill your heart's desires

Your Second Chapter Love Story Begins Now

Embrace the possibility of finding your perfect partner in this new phase of life

Our Story

Zen & Cody on boat in Phuket

We are a non-typical couple, with non-typical views on relationships. We met online via a dating app, and neither one of us planned on meeting our "true person," but here we are. We took the initiate to manifest and design the relationship we wanted. We took our past experiences from dating and being in long-term relationships and marriages, and asked ourselves what did we learn that we want or don't want to bring to the table in this relationship.

We skipped the surface level dates, and conversation topics and dug deep to really learn about each other. Let's face it, when you're 40+ you don't have time to waste. You've been through life, kids may be involved, you're working, and you're just tired of games, and don't have time to play anymore. So, we dug deep, fast, and learned that we were the perfect fit for each other.

Whether you're looking to rediscover love after life changes, build meaningful connections at any age, or start your second chapter love story - we understand the unique challenges and opportunities that come with dating and relationships after 40.

Each day we continue to do the homework to keep our relationship strong. We call it our proactive relationship toolbox. When we met each other we were both spiritually healthy individuals, because we took the time to truly get to know and love ourselves. Self-love always comes first.

This belief has lead us into a healthy marriage that is not about losing ourselves in each other, or removing our individuality to become one, nor do we have the belief that we make each other whole, or that we are each others other half. No! Absolutely not! This is not a common view, and is definitely not aligned with our religious upbringing, but we have take the liberty to design the type of marriage that works for us.

Our goal is to enlighten others to truly love themselves first, and to then take the liberty to create a one-of-a-kind relationship that is healthy and well maintained by those involved. Let's grow, learn, and laugh together as we navigate what it truly means to be in a healthy relationship.

How We Help Couples Thrive

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Inner Work & Self Love

Develop a strong foundation of self-awareness and self-love before entering into relationships.

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Creating Relationship Framework

Learn to design and build the type of relationship that works specifically for you and your partner.

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Growing Together

Maintain and nurture your relationship with ongoing tools and strategies for long-term success.

Relationship Tools & Resources

Communication Guide

Essential communication strategies for healthy relationships

$9.99

Date Night Planner

Creative ideas to keep the spark alive in your relationship

Free

Relationship Assessment

Evaluate your relationship health and identify areas for growth

$5.99

Relationship Workbook

Comprehensive guide to building and maintaining strong relationships

$19.99

Book Your Consultation

Ready to become the best version of yourself? Whether you're preparing to walk confidently on your own or enter a relationship with your own tools and self-awareness, our personalized consultation will help you develop the individual growth and self-love foundation that creates extraordinary connections.

60-Minute Deep Dive Session

$100
  • Complete individual growth assessment
  • Personal development roadmap
  • Self-love and awareness building strategies
  • Tools for bringing your best self to relationships
  • Custom action plan for your journey
  • Follow-up email summary and resources

30-Minute Focus Session

$50
  • Targeted relationship assessment
  • Specific challenge discussion
  • Actionable next steps
  • Resource recommendations
  • Follow-up email summary

Contact information will be collected after you select your preferred consultation option.

What Our Clients Say

"Zen and Cody helped me understand that I needed to love myself first before I could truly love someone else. Their approach is refreshing and real."

- Sarah M.

"At 45, I thought it was too late for love. Zen and Cody showed me how to create the relationship I always wanted. I'm now happily married!"

- Michael R.

"Their tools and guidance helped us design a marriage that works for us, not what society expects. We're stronger than ever."

- Jennifer & David

Making Relationships Amazing

Making Relationships Amazing Podcast

Join us as we explore how becoming the best version of yourself creates extraordinary relationships. Discover how individual growth, self-awareness, and personal development are the foundation for bringing your unique gifts and tools to any partnership. Learn to love yourself first, then create the relationship you truly deserve.